How to save a relationship...

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Ever since I was a little girl, I’ve had a deep desire to help people.  I wondered why people on television had so many problems and so much turmoil in their lives. It use to upset me a lot, because it seemed like
my parents were imitating them all the time.

The irony of it all was when I had to face the same realities in my own life, after two divorces,  I realized I wasn’t anywhere close to understanding relationships. What had gone wrong? How could I have prevented
the break-ups, 33 years of marriage should teach you something, right? Well, I realized after my last divorce, that I was repeating the same patterns with single men I was meeting and they were also repeating the same patterns.  I finally accepted the fact, that I had to go back home to my family of origin and continue to resolve the issues I had with my mother. I began the process of healing my own wounds and learning new skills that I am now convinced are essential for every stage of a relationship.

As I reflect back, it’s clear that my entire life has led up to this point.  My entire family divorced, and the question on how couples could make up and stay together has been on my mind for many years.
Perhaps, breaking up is not the answer.  I know that respect and courage are vital ingredients for love to grow.

HOW TO MAKE UP INSTEAD OF BREAKING UP:

Every relationship has the potential for “sudden shutdowns” What’s both exciting and stunning is that this turn of events can actually solidify your partnership, if you know what to do.

Stop looking for perfection, and work with the partner you have, there’s no one perfect out there.
Perfect your skills within this relationship,  to learn the dynamics and skills needed to have an intimate relationship so you can develop and improve your partnership without manipulative games, blame, or condescension toward each other, you must learn, how to fix things before you break it, sometimes by temporarily breaking up…to make up.

The book  “Make up, Don’t Break Up” takes you by the hand and walks you step by step through a new understanding of relationships so that you can enjoy all the fulfillment that “connecting, disconnecting, and reconnecting” have to offer.
I guaranty you that within 7 days, you can make a dramatic and welcome shift in your love life or marriage and discover how to save a relationship.

The best to all of you.

Paper Back Book/ Publisher:  Adams Media Corporation
Author: Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil with Toni Robino
Title: “ Make up, Don’t Break Up”


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